I had to put my dog to sleep she had a tumor on her belly 3 days ago she stop eating and her tumor got bigger she looked like she was in pain so i decided to put her to sleep the Process was so hard for me to handle and until this day I cry every time I think about it and i feel guilty i don't know what to do ๐ข
We just lost our beautiful black cat Midnight on Saturday. I cannot stop crying. My stomach is in horrible knots all day. We had such a special bond. He followed me EVERYWHERE. Had breakfast with me every morning. Liked to lick the butter off my toast. How can I ease this pain?? I am completely devastated
Hey , how do I get a reading on my baby from u? My cat passed away Friday I had her nearly 10 years and she was hit by a car and I am broken I just need to know if sheโs okay or if she is anyware I am truly struggling with this ๐๐
Lost my best buddy yesterday. If we could love Christ as much as we do our pets no one would ever be lost. And yet I believe Jesus created most of the animal kingdom. He knew they would bring out the love in us.
My lab passed 04.04.2025๐ข My heart is broken. Im not sure how I can go on๐ข He was just 4 and the doctors failed to notice that he had volvulus๐ข Its just awful๐ข
I lost my 18 year old pug 05/23/24. We had been through a lot together with his health his whole life. When he passed, I felt he said his goodbye and I am able to find peace with his passing. I love and miss him of course but when I think of him I'm able to smile that he is no longer enduring his ailments. Then 11/12/24 my 16 year old pug passed. I feel like his passing was partly grief and partly his medical issues. For some reason I cannot get through his passing. I was with him when he passed, I was able to tell him I love him and it was okay to go be with his brother. That same day I found out I had COVID, I've been sick off and on pretty consistently since with various upper respiratory and sinus issues. Normally I'm very healthy. Maybe a cold a couple of times a year. But part of me wonders if it's not somehow related. I still enjoy other animals but I no longer feel connected with them. An example previously if I saw a puppy I would be head over heels excited and have to play with it. Now there is just a numbness, I acknowledge that it is cute but it's like there is nothing else there. I would absolutely still help an animal in need but it's like there is no emotion to it. Maybe I don't know how to explain it. But I know I'm not me anymore.
Am here as we just lost our dog a week ago. The unbearable pain is echoed through the comments. Have had 7 dogs in my life. This is the most painful loss. Still find it hard to comprehend her not being around any more. But I have learned a lot and feel reassured from all the videos on this topic. From my previous experience I know you learn to live with, and work around the wound. But itโs so tough. I loved both my parents, and have lost them both, my mother just 6 months ago. Loosing my sweet dog has felt more acute. Just devastating.
2/8/25 our 13.5yr old dog Daisy died. We rescued her at 5mos old. Then yesterday, 3/22/25, our almost 14yr old lab died. We rescued him at 5 months as well. Losing Daisy was HARD but then losing Braxton was devastating. It was so devastating that I started vomiting which Iโve never felt this type of loss before. My whole body was just hurting!
My dog died this morning. The only thought that is keeping afloat โOur contract of love is completeโ. I successfully loved my dog and she loved me with all the time we had. I canโt keep the tears from falling, replaying the last 24hrs, or make this migraine go away but I can keep giving her doggie accolades. โGood girl Victoria, you are the best Bullmastiff ever!โ
My 14 year old elderly dog just died yesterday due to breast cancer….cried so hard the whole night๐ญ, she died slowly but I never realized you could euthanize the dog to prevent further suffering. But I don't regret anything because she died in my arms and saw her last breath. Thanks for the advice.๐
pls don't mention rabbits. They r SO awesome. Midnight died in my arms. While dying he started running. I often wonder did he see Rainbow Bridge? I carried him around for an hour.
When ive seen my mom, sister, cat others in dreams, in Heaven they were happy, energetic, healthy. Now waiting to see Roman. I had him euthanized 3 days ago. Now i wish i wud hv given him one more chance with one more surgery. He had a chance to live. With euthanasia there are NO chances
When ive seen my mom, sister, cat others in dreams, in Heaven they were happy, energetic, healthy. Now waiting to see Roman. I had him euthanized 3 days ago. Now i wish i wud hv given him one more chance with one more surgery. He had a chance to live. With euthanasia there are NO chances
I lost my Chloe this past Sunday 2/16/25. She had kidney failure, last stage and there was nothing we could do to save her. I never knew that I would feel this pain. I feel empty, devastated. Almost getting depressed. Crying . I went to work today and told my boss that I donโt want him think Iโm crazy bc Iโm crying for a dog. But I told him I didnโt know I would. I miss her so much. My home feels so empty and quiet without her. I had her since a puppy. She would have been 8yrs old this year. She was the sweetest smartest dog Iโve ever seen. I still have my cat Frankie. Even his sad. My husband says I need to see a therapist bc of this. He must not understand. But Iโm devastated and so hurt
I lost halie Oct 1 2022 to cancer. Then my rescue Yorkie passed 3 weeks after. I had a heart attack after that. HALIE was my heart. I mourn them still everyday. I cry. Remember things cry. See things they liked. Cry. I'm losing my mine. Grief is to bad. I try to move on but. I get no signs. I hurt. I suffer anxiety. I miss my babies. I talk to them when I go shopping. Especially halie. She loved shopping and being with me. She loved my purses. Shoes. I get no signs. God help me. I'm so lost and hurt
My dog past 9 days ago and I'm devastated..I cry everyday my life isn't the same …my heart is aching ….I'm a mess and I can't get over it anytime soon ….my dogs are my best friends …โค
Lost our dog on January 26th, Iโm dealing with so much pain I donโt know how to handle itโฆ he died suddenly, I saw him take his last breath and now I have ptsd over being in the bathroom cause itโs where I was the โstartโ of his passing started. I came out fast to help and my wife was by his side too. His death triggered other things within me cause I realized how much he changed our lives and taught us many things, specifically how to truly love, he united our family in a time of crisis and weโre closer than ever before. Iโm thankful he was in our lives and Iโll forever cherish his life.
I had to put my baby down 4 days ago and im struggling so badly… Idk what to do. Its so awful. Im having severe anxiety over it.. Totally devastated ๐
I'll share what helped my deep grief with losing Harry, my 15 yr old sheltie & it was always just me him & my son against the world. I listened to music by Chantress Seba (specific chant music that doesnt soun chant-y, its a flow of sounds that help release rhe grief from the body) I recommend Om Nam Ganapata ye namaha, a release music format that bridges animal loss and humans/nature. Cry if u need, sob if u need. Breathwork, movement. Let your body shake, stillness when u need it, movement when you need it. Gentle breathwork and change your music & breath . I'm ultra+sensitive and feel very very deep, so my grief was unbearable. Breathing, movement, that music unbelievably helped. Peace be with you Kieran, Life Path Reiki and Healing Arts, NJ
Interesting. I lost my soul kitty girl 10/19/24 and I have not received any messages. She was always attached to me, cuddling against or on my middle body. It was the most difficult loss. I bought a stuffed animal to cuddle with and reach out to it often, and clutch it while sleeping. Should I try to let go of this stuffed animal? My surviving boy cat, who helped me through the grief of losing her also passed away 2 weeks ago. I have already received signs from him. I heard him meow just before waking and also heard him on his scratching post (which I already had donated). I am now trying to adjust not having any kitty presence in my home, they were with me for 12 years so it is a difficult change.
I can't moved on on the passing of my dog last Wednesday morning cuz my lacking of attention when he's showing signs of illness cuz I don't have the money to but him the meds that he needs and I had the money and finally bought his meds when everything is already too when his gasping for air and I'm wiping his drools he rest his chin on my hand and I think he thought i can stop what's going on to him. I hide in the bathroom and just bawled cuz I can't take his suffering until he became silent and when I went out of the bathroom he's gone ๐ญ I'm blaming myself cuz he's only 8 but I didn't give him the meds that he need when early signs of his illness occurred ๐ญ
I lost my foster kitten "PUSSU" yesterday..I feel my life is empty without her. My day used to start with her and my day used to end with her. I did everything to keep her alive. She battled for her life till last but she could not….I miss her badly…I had love her unconditionally…She left us too soon…..๐ข
I lost my thor 2022 coming up 3 years on 26/1/25 after a terminal illnessโค he was a very special boy saved my life few times in his short 9 years such a mild kind good soul he had and very aware of dangers around me my heart still pains deep for him i feel him near me often and it warms my heart and i know his sister sees him often
Can u teach me how to communicate and connect with my Minture pincher mixed Chihuahua Delilah? I miss her so much. She passed Dec 26th 2024. I have 5 other dogs here alive but it's not the same. Pls help me communicate with my girl she was 6 yrs old.
On November 20th my cat harpie passed away i spent my last day with her we been together for 13 years we used to everything together watch tv and she would sleep on my bed not only was she a fun loving cat but she was my best friend and i bond i had with my cat and I will miss her
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At what point in time should we think about applying this practice? How long should we allow ourselves to naturally grieve before trying this?
I had to put my dog to sleep she had a tumor on her belly 3 days ago she stop eating and her tumor got bigger she looked like she was in pain so i decided to put her to sleep the Process was so hard for me to handle and until this day I cry every time I think about it and i feel guilty i don't know what to do ๐ข
We just lost our beautiful black cat Midnight on Saturday. I cannot stop crying. My stomach is in horrible knots all day. We had such a special bond. He followed me EVERYWHERE. Had breakfast with me every morning. Liked to lick the butter off my toast.
How can I ease this pain??
I am completely devastated
Your videos are like my therapy to help lower the pain I have with my pet's recent loss two weeks ago. Thank you!
Hey , how do I get a reading on my baby from u? My cat passed away Friday I had her nearly 10 years and she was hit by a car and I am broken I just need to know if sheโs okay or if she is anyware I am truly struggling with this ๐๐
Lost my best buddy yesterday. If we could love Christ as much as we do our pets no one would ever be lost. And yet I believe Jesus created most of the animal kingdom. He knew they would bring out the love in us.
My lab passed 04.04.2025๐ข My heart is broken. Im not sure how I can go on๐ข He was just 4 and the doctors failed to notice that he had volvulus๐ข Its just awful๐ข
This video made me realize the grief is all I have left of him in this plain of existence. ๐
I lost my 18 year old pug 05/23/24. We had been through a lot together with his health his whole life. When he passed, I felt he said his goodbye and I am able to find peace with his passing. I love and miss him of course but when I think of him I'm able to smile that he is no longer enduring his ailments. Then 11/12/24 my 16 year old pug passed. I feel like his passing was partly grief and partly his medical issues. For some reason I cannot get through his passing. I was with him when he passed, I was able to tell him I love him and it was okay to go be with his brother. That same day I found out I had COVID, I've been sick off and on pretty consistently since with various upper respiratory and sinus issues. Normally I'm very healthy. Maybe a cold a couple of times a year. But part of me wonders if it's not somehow related. I still enjoy other animals but I no longer feel connected with them. An example previously if I saw a puppy I would be head over heels excited and have to play with it. Now there is just a numbness, I acknowledge that it is cute but it's like there is nothing else there. I would absolutely still help an animal in need but it's like there is no emotion to it. Maybe I don't know how to explain it. But I know I'm not me anymore.
Am here as we just lost our dog a week ago. The unbearable pain is echoed through the comments. Have had 7 dogs in my life. This is the most painful loss. Still find it hard to comprehend her not being around any more. But I have learned a lot and feel reassured from all the videos on this topic. From my previous experience I know you learn to live with, and work around the wound. But itโs so tough. I loved both my parents, and have lost them both, my mother just 6 months ago. Loosing my sweet dog has felt more acute. Just devastating.
2/8/25 our 13.5yr old dog Daisy died. We rescued her at 5mos old. Then yesterday, 3/22/25, our almost 14yr old lab died. We rescued him at 5 months as well. Losing Daisy was HARD but then losing Braxton was devastating. It was so devastating that I started vomiting which Iโve never felt this type of loss before. My whole body was just hurting!
My dog died this morning. The only thought that is keeping afloat
โOur contract of love is completeโ. I successfully loved my dog and she loved me with all the time we had.
I canโt keep the tears from falling, replaying the last 24hrs, or make this migraine go away but I can keep giving her doggie accolades.
โGood girl Victoria, you are the best Bullmastiff ever!โ
Yes very hard ๐ฅน
This is so true. Nobody seems to empathize with my grief. They say losing a pet is hard for anyone. But they donโt understand how I feel.
My 14 year old elderly dog just died yesterday due to breast cancer….cried so hard the whole night๐ญ, she died slowly but I never realized you could euthanize the dog to prevent further suffering. But I don't regret anything because she died in my arms and saw her last breath. Thanks for the advice.๐
pls don't mention rabbits. They r SO awesome. Midnight died in my arms. While dying he started running. I often wonder did he see Rainbow Bridge? I carried him around for an hour.
When ive seen my mom, sister, cat others in dreams, in Heaven they were happy, energetic, healthy. Now waiting to see Roman. I had him euthanized 3 days ago. Now i wish i wud hv given him one more chance with one more surgery. He had a chance to live. With euthanasia there are NO chances
When ive seen my mom, sister, cat others in dreams, in Heaven they were happy, energetic, healthy. Now waiting to see Roman. I had him euthanized 3 days ago. Now i wish i wud hv given him one more chance with one more surgery. He had a chance to live. With euthanasia there are NO chances
I lost my Chloe this past Sunday 2/16/25. She had kidney failure, last stage and there was nothing we could do to save her. I never knew that I would feel this pain. I feel empty, devastated. Almost getting depressed. Crying . I went to work today and told my boss that I donโt want him think Iโm crazy bc Iโm crying for a dog. But I told him I didnโt know I would. I miss her so much. My home feels so empty and quiet without her. I had her since a puppy. She would have been 8yrs old this year. She was the sweetest smartest dog Iโve ever seen. I still have my cat Frankie. Even his sad. My husband says I need to see a therapist bc of this. He must not understand. But Iโm devastated and so hurt
Its 2 weeks for me and ive never experienced anything like this
I lost halie Oct 1 2022 to cancer. Then my rescue Yorkie passed 3 weeks after. I had a heart attack after that. HALIE was my heart. I mourn them still everyday. I cry. Remember things cry. See things they liked. Cry. I'm losing my mine. Grief is to bad. I try to move on but. I get no signs. I hurt. I suffer anxiety. I miss my babies. I talk to them when I go shopping. Especially halie. She loved shopping and being with me. She loved my purses. Shoes. I get no signs. God help me. I'm so lost and hurt
My dog was my world, my life, my happy place I'm so broken ๐ my heart hurts so much x
My dog past 9 days ago and I'm devastated..I cry everyday my life isn't the same …my heart is aching ….I'm a mess and I can't get over it anytime soon ….my dogs are my best friends …โค
Lost our dog on January 26th, Iโm dealing with so much pain I donโt know how to handle itโฆ he died suddenly, I saw him take his last breath and now I have ptsd over being in the bathroom cause itโs where I was the โstartโ of his passing started. I came out fast to help and my wife was by his side too.
His death triggered other things within me cause I realized how much he changed our lives and taught us many things, specifically how to truly love, he united our family in a time of crisis and weโre closer than ever before. Iโm thankful he was in our lives and Iโll forever cherish his life.
After my 2 dogs died, i was broken and it doesn't get better ๐ข๐ข… Im even considering moving to another house to avoid all the memories
I had to put my baby down 4 days ago and im struggling so badly… Idk what to do. Its so awful. Im having severe anxiety over it.. Totally devastated ๐
I'll share what helped my deep grief with losing Harry, my 15 yr old sheltie & it was always just me him & my son against the world.
I listened to music by Chantress Seba (specific chant music that doesnt soun chant-y, its a flow of sounds that help release rhe grief from the body)
I recommend Om Nam Ganapata ye namaha, a release music format that bridges animal loss and humans/nature. Cry if u need, sob if u need. Breathwork, movement. Let your body shake, stillness when u need it, movement when you need it. Gentle breathwork and change your music & breath .
I'm ultra+sensitive and feel very very deep, so my grief was unbearable. Breathing, movement, that music unbelievably helped.
Peace be with you
Kieran, Life Path Reiki and Healing Arts, NJ
Interesting. I lost my soul kitty girl 10/19/24 and I have not received any messages. She was always attached to me, cuddling against or on my middle body. It was the most difficult loss. I bought a stuffed animal to cuddle with and reach out to it often, and clutch it while sleeping. Should I try to let go of this stuffed animal? My surviving boy cat, who helped me through the grief of losing her also passed away 2 weeks ago. I have already received signs from him. I heard him meow just before waking and also heard him on his scratching post (which I already had donated). I am now trying to adjust not having any kitty presence in my home, they were with me for 12 years so it is a difficult change.
I can't moved on on the passing of my dog last Wednesday morning cuz my lacking of attention when he's showing signs of illness cuz I don't have the money to but him the meds that he needs and I had the money and finally bought his meds when everything is already too when his gasping for air and I'm wiping his drools he rest his chin on my hand and I think he thought i can stop what's going on to him. I hide in the bathroom and just bawled cuz I can't take his suffering until he became silent and when I went out of the bathroom he's gone ๐ญ I'm blaming myself cuz he's only 8 but I didn't give him the meds that he need when early signs of his illness occurred ๐ญ
I lost my foster kitten "PUSSU" yesterday..I feel my life is empty without her. My day used to start with her and my day used to end with her. I did everything to keep her alive. She battled for her life till last but she could not….I miss her badly…I had love her unconditionally…She left us too soon…..๐ข
I lost my thor 2022 coming up 3 years on 26/1/25 after a terminal illnessโค he was a very special boy saved my life few times in his short 9 years such a mild kind good soul he had and very aware of dangers around me my heart still pains deep for him i feel him near me often and it warms my heart and i know his sister sees him often
Can u teach me how to communicate and connect with my Minture pincher mixed Chihuahua Delilah? I miss her so much. She passed Dec 26th 2024. I have 5 other dogs here alive but it's not the same. Pls help me communicate with my girl she was 6 yrs old.
On November 20th my cat harpie passed away i spent my last day with her we been together for 13 years we used to everything together watch tv and she would sleep on my bed not only was she a fun loving cat but she was my best friend and i bond i had with my cat and I will miss her